2010年，中国“虎妈”蔡美儿以其给两个女儿列出绝对不允许做的“十不准”在全球一炮走红。由此而引发的有关如何教育子女的争论愈演愈烈。请就此给china daily 投稿，阐明家长们的不同观点，并发表自己的见解。
一些家长的观点 子女必须沿着父母为其选择的道路努力…...
必要时采用高压手段…...
另一些家长的观点 孩子应该自由发展…...
赏识教育，好孩子是夸出来的…...
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amy chua, a professor at yale law school, who listed ten “don’ts” to her two daughters became
famous overnight. she insists that parents should be very strict with their children. it has caused a
heated online debate……

amy chua, a professor at yale law school, who listed ten “don’ts” to her two daughters became famous overnight. she insists that parents should be very strict with their children. it has caused a heated online debate.
some parents insist that children should make every effort to live up to their parents’ expectations. they believe it is necessary to be strict with their children. they say parents who set high standards and push their kids to study and make achievements can ensure their children’s success in the future competition.
others, on the contrary, hold the opinion that children should have the right to make their own decisions and develop in their own way. additionally, praise the children when they do well and encourage them when they are faced with challenges, and they will be great.
in my opinion, those who are raised with the strict chinese parenting style don’t have the ability to think and act independently. they lack imagination, creativity and social skills. parents should not put so much pressure on the children. just give them suggestions and show respect to their own choices so that they will learn to be independent.